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Questions & Answers For Saint Cloud, Minnesota
Introduction The institution of marriage, by which a man and a woman become one in a partnership of the whole of life, was established by God. Moreover, the marriage covenant between two baptized persons has been raised by Christ the Lord to the dignity of a sacrament. So sacred is the bond of marriage, that Christ Himself declared that what God has joined together no one is to divide. When a man and a woman exchange consent to marry, when they say, "I do," they agree to enter that perpetual and ever faithful bond of marriage which is directed to their own well being, and to the procreation and education of children. Sadly, however, the life of a marriage can be a fragile thing. Divorce has become one of the familiar events of our day. Many marriages are not successful in spite of good intentions of the spouses. This is true even when a family has been established, and the marriage has lasted for many years. The Church attempts always to be as sensitive and understanding as possible to the stress and pain that all this brings to people. The Office of the Tribunal of the Diocese of St. Cloud exists largely to help all those who are divorced (and with a possible remarriage) who now seek a clarification of their status in the Church. Once a marriage is entered into between any two persons, Catholic, Protestant, or non-Christian, it is presumed to be a valid and binding union until the contrary can be proven. And as long as a person is bound to a previous valid marriage, the Church does not permit a second marriage to take place. The Church has established certain procedures by which persons can attempt to prove that a previous marriage was not valid or binding, thereby assuring that they are free to marry according to the rites of the Church. This usually involves those persons who seek to marry in the Church, but have been previously married. However, others too may need the assistance of the Tribunal. For example, divorced Catholics may want to settle the status of a previous marriage that ended in divorce even though they have no immediate plans to remarry. There are many misconceptions about what a declaration of nullity in the Catholic Church actually is. The following information is an attempt to answer the most frequently asked questions about annulments. 1. What is a
Declaration of Nullity (annulment)? Neither is an annulment a statement that a marriage never existed civilly. Rather, it is a determination that certain conditions were present at the time the marriage was entered that made it an invalid union according to Catholic Church teaching. The civil effects and recognition of that marriage remain intact and unchanged. Moreover, an annulment is not a statement that the marriage was entered into in bad faith by either of the parties. It is not a statement of who caused the marriage to fail or who was most guilty for its failure. Those are certainly important questions for a person to ask. But they are not the questions a Tribunal must answer. The annulment process, in its most simple form, involves any person coming to the Church and asking to be heard. Information is gathered by us and in the end, we answer that person's request: the marriage was invalid or valid according to the laws of the Church. 2. Does an
annulment have anything to do with civil law? 3. Does an
annulment affect the legitimacy of children? 4. Who can apply
for an annulment? Divorced people, no matter what their religious affiliation, have a carefully-protected right in this Church to ask the Church to determine whether or not their previous marriage was valid. If they are not of the Catholic faith, they seek this generally because they wish to remarry, and the intended spouse is a Catholic who wants the marriage to be recognized by the Catholic Church. We respect the vows of marriage of all people, no matter what their religious affiliation is. Members of the Catholic Church, however, are bound to have their marriage recognized by the Church. This is why members of other churches must often go through an annulment process before they can marry someone in the Catholic Church. 5. How is an
annulment process started? 6. Will my former
spouse be contacted? It is very helpful to have the participation of the former spouse. However, we obviously cannot require the former spouse to take part in the process. Your former spouse does not have to agree to the annulment. Nor does the former spouse have to agree to participate. But we must let the former spouse know the process has begun and what the eventual result of it is. Sometimes, it happens that the current address of the former spouse is not known. In such a situation, the address of a parent will suffice if the marriage in question took place in the territory of the St. Cloud Diocese. When the marriage did not take place in this territory it is imperative a current address is sought for the former spouse. There are several places on the Internet that might help you find a recent address. For example, one helpful site is http://www.locateme.com 7. What documents
are needed? Copies of the baptismal certificates of all
Catholic parties involved. 8. How is a case
submitted to the Tribunal? 10. Who can be
witnesses? 11. Is other
information needed? 12. When is a
decision reached? 13.When does the
decision become final? 14. Does the
Tribunal ever deny an annulment? 15. When can I set
a wedding date? In certain circumstances, depending on the pastor you are in contact with, you may begin marriage preparation in hopes of eventually entering a new marriage. However, since the outcome is never certain, no date should be set, no invitations ordered, etc., until the declaration of nullity has been received and confirmed. 16. How long does
it take to complete the process of annulment? 17. How much does
the annulment procedure cost? 18. What if I have
other questions? © 2008 Diocese of St. Cloud. All rights reserved. |